So, the kids were playing outside on Tuesday - Josh had been over to a neighbor's house and was back and Dima was goofing around  and Chris comes home and brings me over to his truck and says "what do you see?" and after getting at the right angle I could see   Josh  Josh etched into the paint!!!
 His first explanation was that Dima did it and I was like, with YOUR name? and then he was saying: well, he told me to do it, ok  whatever, .. now he's grounded for a week  - and  2 weeks  with no games - one for each time he wrote his name.  We've heard varying stories in the past few days  and I'm not sure if Dima was uninvolved or not and Josh has said he's sorry to Chris but then also said  - but you made me mad!  I think he's sorry for getting punished, not for actually doing it.  Chris is glad that Dima didn't tattle but in this case I think he should have privately come to us to tell us.  OY!